by Kirk Martin | Nov 15, 2020 | Calm Parenting
Weird Encounter with High Strung Mom at the LibrarySo I had this weird encounter with a single Mom at the local library. I’m browsing through books and a lady is watching me. I get self-conscious. Does she think I’m stealing books or something? It’s...
by Kirk Martin | Nov 3, 2020 | Calm Parenting
So about a month ago, the new teller at my bank, Christine, asks, “What’s this Celebrate Calm?” I tell her how we work with kids who like to do things on their own terms, argue and negotiate, create fierce battles over little issues, are bright but...
by Kirk Martin | Nov 9, 2017 | Calm Parenting
It’s amazing what happens when a kid feels understood. I received this email from a middle school student named Justin. Look how insightful he is. Dear Mr. Martin, You and your son are the first people who have really understood me so I want to ask a favor....
by Kirk Martin | Oct 8, 2017 | Calm Parenting
I received a phone call from a pastor recently, angry that his church had booked me to speak because I didn’t believe enough in punishment and consequences. He accused me of allowing children to rule the home. I asked him to please read this blog post and listen...
by Kirk Martin | Jun 2, 2017 | Calm Parenting
How Can You Get Kids Moving ASAP When There Isn’t Time to Be Calm? So this is cool. A dad downloaded the new CDs and listened on his way back and forth to work. I’m always happy to personally answer questions as you’re listening to the new CDs. Q:...
by Kirk Martin | Apr 29, 2017 | Calm Parenting
3 Quick Facts (1) You have a billion times more control over your child’s behavior by controlling your own behavior. Parenting isn’t even really about kids–it’s about parents. (2) Parents spend thousands of dollars and every waking minute...