I really appreciate the practical (and sometimes counter-intuitive!) strategies. We would have been divorced if not for Kirk’s willingness to address issues others avoided. It gave us an actual Game Plan so we didn’t feel hopeless anymore.
~ Nicole and Paul V., Arlington, VA
Kirk, I initially balked at the cost of your time, but it’s so worth it. I have never had a therapist really understand and validate how lonely it feels when you have a strong-willed child like this. You get it. Total game-changer when nothing else worked.
~ Alex K., Bakersfield, CA
We were at the end of our rope when I saw your Instagram videos and knew, “This guy gets it.” I can’t adequately express how much your mentoring means–it’s changed our family. Worth every penny.
~ Joel and Sherri Z., Raleigh, NC
KIRK IS BOOKED WITH CALLS: 2 OTHER OPTIONS
Kirk is completely booked with clients for the foreseeable future. Here are two other options:
(1) Work through the programs in the Get Everything Package first, then email with one or two specific questions and we’ll try to help via email.
(2) If you have a teenager, contact Dr. Cam for a free, 20-minute consultation or seek help from a local therapist. We will open up this page again if we have availability for calls with Kirk.
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If you want someone to waste lots of time just talking or to tell you to give consequences that don’t work, then see a regular therapist.
But I already understand how frustrating this can be, what it’s like to be at your wits’ end when nothing else works…and I understand why your kids do what they do….so we can cut to the chase and get a lot done in a short period of time.
“My husband never listened to therapists, but he feels like Kirk understands him and even talks like him. Kirk has been able to help my husband and I get on the same page. That’s been priceless.”
I respect your time, money and family. While this requires an investment, I am structuring this so we can make real progress in a short period of time. I have found that providing two 45-minute calls is most effective.
(1) I don’t waste time on the call gathering background information you can provide on a simple intake form that I review before we even talk. That way, we can use our valuable time to problem solve and create specific action steps.
(2) We will end our first call with specific action steps to complete in between calls. We can spread the two calls over several weeks or months if you wish. You choose.
(3) In between our two calls, you can email me with updates and questions so we can keep refining the plan. You can’t do this with regular therapists, but it’s extremely valuable and helpful.
If you are ready to dig into this and finally make changes, I will give you 110% of my energy.
“We had fought over video games and smartphones for years and had finally just given in and given up. Kirk gave us the actual language to use with concrete action steps to FINALLY get control of screens in our home. It wasn’t easy at first, but we finally have peace and our kids are happier. Highly recommended.”
Here’s how it works:
– Once you register, we will send you an email asking you to choose the days of the week/times of day most convenient for your first call. Kirk can talk mornings, afternoons, evenings and weekends.
– We will also gather a short summary of your family dynamics so Kirk understands your primary struggles and goals even before the first phone call begins.