What if most of what we’ve been told about PDA actually keeps our kids stuck —
and there’s a better way to help them thrive?
WE BUILD CONFIDENT PARENTS & CONFIDENT KIDS
Parenting a child with PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) can feel isolating. It’s difficult enough without being judged by professionals, other parents and schools. It hurts even more when your own family blames you and even rejects your child.
Our family has been on this PDA journey for decades–both Casey and I have PDA so we understand how it affects the entire family.
We will share insider insights to help your child grow confidence and capacity — not by pushing them or avoiding demands — but by learning how to lead them safely through discomfort and anxiety as a calm, connected parent.
Instead of walking on eggshells, imagine being able to confidently and naturally anticipate what your child needs rather than feeling exhausted and reactive. You can do this!
LISTEN TO THE PDA PARENT PODCAST
What if most of what we’ve been told about PDA actually keeps our kids stuck — and there’s a better way to help them thrive? Join host Kirk Martin, a PDA dad with a PDA son, for practical strategies you likely haven’t heard before.
Click on the player above or listen on your favorite podcast platform like Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, etc.
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& RECLAIM YOUR FAMILY NOW.
Confident Parents, Confident Kids
PDA Parent Program
Safely Build Your Child’s Capacity To Thrive In Daily Life
1) You are a thoughtful parent and our kids are too capable to spend their lives just surviving and burned out.
2) Imagine that light coming back into your child’s eyes when they are allowed to be the curious, kind-hearted, sensitive kids they were meant to be. Your kids CAN thrive.
3) Many families are told that the only option is constant accommodation, fewer demands, and walking on eggshells. Over time, this exhausts parents, strains marriages, and unintentionally limits our kids’ confidence and growth.
No need to push or avoid. We lead. This is a positive, parent-led alternative that respects your child’s dignity and capability.
4) We show you how to safely and compassionately lead your child though their discomfort and anxiety…so that they can build confidence and manage difficult things in everyday life.
5) You don’t need to try harder. You need new insights most parents are never given…from a father and son who have lived the PDA experience their entire lives.
We give specific action steps, scripts, and options for morning routine, school anxiety and struggles, after school meltdowns, homework, resistance to extracurricular activities, chores and cleaning up, mealtime and food, screens, hygiene (bath, shower, brushing hair and teeth), clothes, bedtime, impact on siblings and marriage, social skills, potty training, recovering from burn out, and more.
6) You will get over 9 hours of specific, practical scripts and strategies you likely have not heard before…for the hardest, most triggering situations.
7) You can email me directly with your specific questions. This is personal to us and I want to be right alongside you on this journey.
8) Skeptical dads and partners will be open to our approach and I speak directly to them in the program so the whole family can get on the same page. This will feel doable to them.
9) This program is yours to keep forever. There is no time limit. I will be continually updating the Q&A section with new strategies and insights for years to come so we can keep growing together.
You can share the program for free with your spouse, your parents and your child’s teachers so everyone is on the same page.
10) The audio recordings and workbook are delivered via an easy-to-use app so you can begin listening ASAP. There are no wait lists. Let’s jump in now.
11) I am aware that many programs charge $1200 – $1500 with waitlists. That doesn’t align with where I am in life or why we created this. We respect the depth and power of this work, but we also want it accessible to families who need help now.
The full program, including direct email support from me and future updates, is $297 with a two-payment option and no fees. I am not pricing this to maximize profit. it’s priced so families can access real help without waiting.
– Lifetime Access
– Ongoing Updates, No Upsells
– Email Support From Me
– Share With Spouse & Teachers
– One payment of $297 or 2 payments of $149
12) Many parents choose to share parts of the program with their child after going through it once. Kids often find it deeply validating and empowering to understand themselves.

