Have you ever stood and fumed while standing in line? Well, this is a small way that my life has changed. But the small things really matter, don’t they?! I’m at Publix picking up just two things for dinner. I go to the Express Checkout lane. No, the lady in front of me didn’t have… Continue Reading ›

Take this pledge today. I refuse to give power over my happiness, mood and peace of mind to another person or situation. I will not allow my child’s attitude, my spouse’s tone or my boss’s indifference to determine my mood. I will not allow disappointment, frustration or my perfectionism to spoil my day. Instead, I… Continue Reading ›

In today’s newsletter, I share different ways that I used to manipulate my wife and son. It was ugly. Do you notice any of these patterns in yourself or your spouse? Are you ready to change these patterns? Feel free to comment below this blog post. *If you do not currently receive the email newsletter,… Continue Reading ›

Later this week, we’ll address sibling issues. But I wanted to write something personal both to encourage you and express my gratitude. I grew up the third of four boys. We played together; fought, teased and manipulated each other; committed mischief in our neighborhood; and gave each other physical scars. We were boys. The great… Continue Reading ›

What’s more fun? Rushing around snapping at people or being relaxed and productive? Many of you know our three-step prescription for anxiety. Guess what? It works for adults as well! Tomorrow, we are filming a conference titled, “IEPs from A-Z” in the nation’s capital. This always creates a great deal of anxiety. There are so… Continue Reading ›

In today’s newsletter, I shared a very small…but very powerful communication insight. It’s something that most of us get wrong on a consistent basis. And we end up with negotiations and fights…instead of trust and kids who listen. Do you get the newsletter? If not, click here to subscribe to our free newsletter. Read it… Continue Reading ›

Does anything irritate you more than your kids arguing? In today’s newsletter, we share the specific words and actions you can take to end these arguments. Sign up for the free newsletter here, read the newsletter and then come back here to share your comments and questions. It’s that easy.

The most important gift for your child’s teacher is insight into your child. Create a one-page sheet (please don’t take in 15 pages of evaluations and test results!) that lists: Your child’s gifts and talents. Give teachers concrete suggestions for connecting with your child and showing off their talents. After defining your child by his… Continue Reading ›

Listen to our latest Radio Show and discover the answer to this and 10 great questions: What to do when in-laws discipline your kids; the purpose of discipline (may surprise you!); how to get kids to rise to do their best; picky eaters (mac and cheese/chicken nuggets anyone?!); teenage girls and cell phones; bossy kids… Continue Reading ›

Moms, you must take a stand and stop this insanity. Let’s destroy several myths that are causing you to be stressed, overburdened, resentful and at your wit’s end. 1) Expectations of Moms are simply ridiculous. You can’t do it all. The sad part is that many Moms allow societal expectations to shape their view of… Continue Reading ›