Celebrate Calm with Kirk

Are you tired of yelling, nagging and throwing your own tantrums from morning to bedtime? Yeah, I know, we have intense kids. But calm is not an absence of noise, problems or chaos. It means that instead of people and situations changing you, YOU spread your calm and change your environment. That’s pretty cool. And if an intense, driven, Type-A, anxiety freak like me can do it, you can. Ready to change yourself and your family for generations to come?

Do you respect yourself?

Today, I admit that *I* am responsible for my own happiness. If I don’t care enough about myself to take care of myself, to do something for myself, then no one else will care about me. Respect comes from self-respect. Because I respect my emotional, physical and spiritual health, I will take ONE action today… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on October 26, 2011 by Kirk Martin

Casey Unplugged in VA, NC, SC: 14 Free Workshops March 19-27

Casey shared some insights the past two days that I had never heard him share–they were actually pretty profound and hard-hitting. So I asked if he would begin sharing these at all of our upcoming workshops in Virginia,  North Carolina, South Carolina and Tennessee. This adds one more powerful element to the workshops that will… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on March 18, 2012 by Kirk Martin

Fight over bed, clothes, brushing teeth?

I am a single Mom that was raised in the south (now living in the nation’s capital). I am a firm, but loving mother, or so I thought. The rule is spare the rod, spoil the child, right?  I have a wonderfully bright and strong-willed 3 year old son who is looking to me for… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on October 19, 2011 by Kirk Martin

Are you “messed up”? No. You’re courageous.

It is so tempting to think that if you are struggling in your marriage and family life, that you are a failure or “messed up” as one Mom wrote recently. But that’s not true. Relationships are difficult. They are supposed to be difficult. And that’s what gives them meaning. I have been so humbled and… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on October 18, 2011 by Kirk Martin

Sibling fights

Somewhere we got this romantic notion that our children would practice patience, empathy and compassion toward each other. Squabbling and wrestling would be rare. Right. And politicians would never lie. The history of mankind is littered with examples of sibling fights (and worse).  We all want kids who can get along, problem solve and handle… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on October 17, 2011 by Kirk Martin

Calm changes lives

Brett was awesome when I called to order your CDs last May.  I have made great progress making my home more calm. Everyday I hear things on your podcasts and CDs that help us. Just wanted to say THANK YOU!  Please keep doing what you are doing….you are changing lives. Andie S. I can not express enough gratitude… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on October 15, 2011 by Kirk Martin

Today, I celebrate imperfection…

Today, I celebrate imperfection and everything beautiful that entails. I celebrate my humanity, that I am dust, that my imperfection gives me opportunities for redemption in my relationships. Imperfection means I walk without the burden of the perfect answer, the perfect solution…because sometimes there isn’t one. It relieves me of the compulsion to control people… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on October 12, 2011 by Kirk Martin

Are you a parent or dictator?!

Dear Kirk, As I started to become overbearing on my son (4), and more and more frustrated with the lack of any positive result, my wife reminded me that she had your CDs at her office and suggested that I listen to them. What a revelation! When my parents’ authority was challenged, the challenge was met… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on October 5, 2011 by Kirk Martin

3 Free Workshops in Alabama Mon/Tue/Wed

Monday, November 14                       6:30pm – 8:30pm Alabama State University–Buskey Health Science Bldg (Auditorium) /  915 S. Jackson St. / Montgomery, AL 36104 Tuesday, November 15                       6:30pm – 8:30pm Homewood Library / 1721 Oxmoor Road / Homewood, AL 35209 Wednesday, November 16                       6:30pm – 8:30pm Chelsea Park Elementary Cafeteria /  9000 Chelsea Park… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on November 5, 2011 by Kirk Martin

Pennsylvania. 3 Free Workshops Mon/Tue/Wed.

Monday, October 3          7:00pm – 9:00pm Robeson Elementary /  801 White Bear Rd. /  Birdsboro, PA 19508 Tuesday, October 4          7:00pm – 9:00pm Twin Valley Elementary /  50 Mast Drive /  Elverson, PA 19520 Wednesday, October 5          7:00pm – 9:00pm Honey Brook Elementary /  1530 W. Walnut Rd. /  Honey Brook, PA… Continue Reading ›

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Posted on October 1, 2011 by Kirk Martin

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