I am upset, marching toward my son’s room when I get the text from Kirk: “De-escalate before you discipline.” That reminder in the moment saved hours of yelling, tears, hurt feelings, and embarrassment.
~ Paul C., Minneapolis
I’m a frugal guy and initially flinched at the cost, but it’s changed me and our family. Quite literally I think it’s saved us from divorce. I’ve never been able to relate to therapists, but your texts and replies are actionable and relatable as a Dad who gets it.
~ Joe B., Seattle, WA
I get home from work, immediately set off by the mess and chaos. I text Kirk and he walks me through the situation live while it’s unfolding. Complete game-changer for me.
~ Josh W., Alexandria, VA
Text Mentoring Directly With Kirk
Change yourself and your own reactions…
instead of trying to change your kids and everyone else.
You are a Dad who wants respect more than anything in the world. So your kids listen to you and don’t make the same mistakes you did. Because you love them and want them to be successful.
But you are too reactive, use the my way or highway approach you learned from your Dad, or you withdraw. I did all those things. But it only makes things worse with your wife and kids. I’ll help you cut to the chase and make changes talking to you like a real Dad.
“My husband always scoffed at counselors and parenting books, but he says Kirk actually understands his struggles as a guy. These text reminders and quick conversations are priceless and I’m so thankful someone finally gets him.”
I respect your time, money and family. This requires an investment, and I am structuring this so we can make real progress. After discovering the ages of your kids and what you struggle with most, here’s how it works:
(1) You will get three texts each week (or emails if you prefer). Most texts will be short, to the point and challenging, but above all relevant and practical. Texts are optimal because they are quick and easy to digest in the moment. Most guys find they come at just the right time!
(2) At any time, even in between texts, you can text with questions so we can keep making progress. You can’t do this with regular therapists, but it’s extremely valuable and helpful.
(3) I will send you the Straight Talk for Dads audio program for FREE via instant download. Listen to this. It’s short, direct, and helpful.
(4) I am charging $100 per month because when you invest, you take it more seriously and you are more likely to ask for help. Some of you are close to losing your child and wife. Some of you have struggled your entire life to control yourself. And it’s worth making that change now.
Men, if you are ready to dig into this and finally make changes, I will give you 110% of my energy.
“I am finally learning, after 43 years of being reactive, how to sit in the chaos and handle what comes my way. I’m finally learning how to change myself instead of everyone around me, and I have to say, ‘Damn, this feels good.’ I feel like I’m becoming the Dad I always wanted to be.”